Today, May 22, 2019, marks the 139th birthday of my 2nd great grandmother Alpha May Bloomer.
I don’t know any anecdotes about my 2nd great grandmother, she passed May 5, 1955, just a few weeks shy of her 75th birthday and 25 years preceding my birth. Her daughter, my great-grandmother, Iva Mabel Wallace, née Kershaw, passed when I was 7. Living 1,800 miles apart, I only knew who Iva was through a photo that hung on the wall of my family home. I didn’t hear the name Alpha until I began researching my family tree. Humans are forward thinking, anticipating what’s in front of us, and the past is the past. How sad is it that what made us whole, what was important to us, what we were like… can all be lost within a few generations? I will make my best attempt to preserve what I know and share her story here.
Alpha Mae Bloomer was born to Joseph Watson Bloomer and Nancy Jemima “Annie” Sloan on May 22, 1880 in New Point, Holt County, Missouri, USA. Like most Midwest families she was a farmer’s daughter. Her father bred and sold Poland China Pigs.
Alpha was the eldest of six children born to Joseph & Annie. Her siblings were Bessie who died at 4 days old (2 Sep 1884 – 6 Sep 1884), Iva Belle (twin to Bessie, 2 Sep 1884-21 Jul 1950), Maude Elizabeth (2 Nov 1886- 17 Apr 1968), Grace (6 Oct 1889-10 Jan 1962) and Clifton Allen (1 Nov 1897-21 Apr 1975.)
She lived in Holt County, Missouri most of her childhood, except for a short time when the family homesteaded to Chadron, Nebraska.
At the age of 15 she met and married Frederick Kershaw. Fred was 28 years old and had been married once before, his first wife had died in childbirth about 5 years prior. I am not sure how he came into Alpha’s world, but on 22 Dec 1895 they were married in Holt County, Missouri.
(Photo: Frederick Kershaw & Alpha May Bloomer)
The outcome of most wedding nights, their daughter Bernice Marie Kershaw was born 9 months later, on 14 Sep 1896. Alpha went on to expand in motherhood by giving birth to Inez Glee on 5 Apr 1899, Dale on 4 Apr 1900, Iva Mabel on 27 Mar 1901, Don W. F. on 5 May 1904, Robert in April 1908 and Bessie Winifred on 10 Apr 1911.
The gift of motherhood was also met with unimaginable heartbreak; I can’t imagine losing a child and Alpha lost 4. A plot of tears, these babes are all laid to rest in Cowan Cemetery in Holt County, Missouri. Inez Glee lived to a little over a year old, she passed in March 1900. Dale lived 7 days and passed on 11 Apr 1900 entering and parting this life only a month after his sister. Don W. F. born and died 5 May 1904, and Robert Walter lived about a year passing on 15 Mar 1909.
As a newlywed couple they lived on her grandfather’s farm, Allan Trimble Bloomer, where their daughter Bernice was born. Later they moved onto Barnard, Missouri and then Guilford, Missouri where her children attended school.
All was not wedded bliss. While the War raged on in Europe, another war was brewing at home. Alpha separated from Fred and made her temporary home in Grain Valley, Missouri where her sister Iva Kershaw (née Bloomer) lived. Alpha filed for divorce from Fred and it was finalized on October 10, 1918 in Jackson County, Missouri. Alpha was awarded primary custody of her only minor child Bessie and visitation arrangement for Fred was outlined in the court papers. Fred was ordered to pay $5.00 support each week.
While she lived at Grain Valley she was employed as a teletype operator at the railroad depot. She also was housekeeper for a family by the name of Wells. Mrs. Wells was a bedfast invalid. (source: Vivienne Jones née Richards. The following excerpts are from a bio written in Vivienne’s words and have been italicized and notated as VRJ through the remaining post)
Alpha lost her father Joseph on November 12, 1919. He passed away while staying in a hotel in St. Joseph, Missouri. Found in his room, he was victim to accidental gas asphyxiation. He was laid to rest in Cowan Cemetery, the same final resting place of her children. Following her father’s passing, in 1920 Alpha relocated back in Guilford, Missouri with her 8-year-old daughter Bessie, now residing in the home of Mrs. Mary Whitiford employed as a maid.
Shortly thereafter, Alpha May moved to Des Moines, Iowa where her eldest daughter lived. She worked as a housekeeper for Mr. Petty. Mr. Petty lived in the second-floor apartment next door to her daughters’ home. She and Mr. Petty made plans to get married but for some reason didn’t. Perhaps it was because he was a lot older than she. Next, she worked at a large store called Harris Emery’s in downtown Des Moines. She bought a home on Bluff Street. Here her second daughter, Iva moved to Des Moines and bought a home a block away from her mother on Bluff Street. (source: VRJ)
Bernice and Leland sold their first home in Des Moines and moved to Bluff Street next door to Iva. They lived there about a year and then sold and moved to Conception Jct., Missouri. While Alpha May lived on Bluff Street, she took in roomers to help make payments on the house. She became engaged to and married a Mr. John Quigley. (source: VRJ)
At the age of 43, Alpha May Kershaw married John Edwin Quigley, age 41 on 27 Aug 1923 in Des Moines, Iowa.
They had a short marriage and she divorced him. She never remarried again although she was still young. She always said she couldn’t trust herself to make a good choice. (source: VRJ)
In 1939 loss struck Alpha again with the passing of her mother Annie on September 15th. Her mother was laid to rest beside her father Joseph in Cowan Cemetery.
Alpha May made her home with her youngest daughter Bessie most of her life. Bessie Winifred married Lloyd Hersal Jones of Winfield, Kansas on January 18, 1936. He was a soldier at Ft. Leavenworth, Kansas. Lloyd was also the brother of Lyle Jones who married Bessie Winifred’s niece, Vivienne. Lloyd had several jobs in Des Moines, Iowa and they continued to live there until he got a job in the Immigration Service and they moved to a home in Maryland which was close to Washington D.C. Later he went to work for Brown’s Shipyard during the war and they moved to a small town near Houston, Texas.
Alpha May worked for a Mrs. Ballou in or near Houston and she stayed with her daughter Bessie on her off days. Lloyd finally moved to Sacramento, California working for a dairy and later for McClellan A.F.B. Alpha May worked for other people in the Sacramento area but mostly she stayed with her daughter Bessie. (source: VRJ)
(Photo: Vivienne Jones (back), Bernice Richards, Nancy Jones and Alpha May Kershaw)
She died May 5, 1955 of a stroke and jaundice of the liver. She was preceded in death by the father of her children. Fred Kershaw died September 20, 1933 in Kansas City, Missouri. (source: VRJ)
Alpha’s final resting place is Sunset Lawn Chapel of the Chimes Memorial Park in Sacramento, California.
Her obituary, published in The Sacramento Bee, on Saturday May 7, 1955 reads:
Alpha M. Kershaw
Funeral services will be held Monday at 10:30 AM in the North Sacramento Funeral Home for Mrs. Alpha May Kershaw, 74, a resident of Del Paso Heights eight years. Burial will be in the Grant Memorial Lawn Cemetery.
Mrs. Kershaw, a native of Missouri, died Thursday in a hospital. She resided at 4137 Rio Linda Boulevard and was active in the work of the North Sacramento First Baptist Church.
She was also a member of the Royal Neighbors of America, Camp No. 232S of Sacramento.
Surviving are he daughters, Bessie Winifred Jones of Del Paso Heights and Bernice Marie Richards and Iva Mabel Wallace, both of Iowa; nine grandchildren, 13 great grand children and one great great grandchild.
She was the sister of Maude Shumaker and Clifton Bloomer, both of Missouri, and Grace Bateman of Kansas.
My dear 2nd Great Grandmother Alpha, reflecting on your life today makes me sad that I do not know more about what brought you joy, what made you smile and delight in the day to day of life. I wish I had more of your story to tell. Today is a day of celebration, where this day 139 years ago a little girl was born to a farmer and his wife. Where love brought about the beginning of another generation, and the path continues for this family today. I celebrate the beautiful life you lived and despite the storms you faced, how you shaped wonderful children who would carry on in love and dedication to family. I wish you an eternity of peace and love in heaven. Happy Birthday! Love always, your 2nd great granddaughter, Erin